The Father's Good Gifts: Trusting Beyond Stones and Serpents

The passage from Matthew 7:7-11 forms the bedrock of this teaching: "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. Or what man is there of you, whom if his son ask bread, will he give him a stone? Or if he ask a fish, will he give him a serpent? If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him?!" (KJV) So why the disillusionment?

It often stems from two extremes:
Vagueness in our petitions—offering general prayers with no clarity or depth, while expecting precise answers.
Sanctimonious surrender—feigned neutrality that masks fear and unbelief, pretending to be okay with anything, while inwardly nursing frustration.
This scripture is a cornerstone of understanding the nature of God as Father and the posture we should adopt in prayer. The vivid analogy presented—imagining being served stones instead of bread, or venomous snakes instead of nourishing fish—highlights a profound spiritual truth and corrects a common, often subconscious, misconception in our relationship with God.

1. The Core Analogy: God's Goodness vs. Our Fear
Jesus uses a powerful rhetorical argument (an a fortiori argument – "how much more"). He appeals to basic human parental instinct: even flawed, sinful ("evil") human parents desire to provide good, necessary things for their children. No loving earthly father would mock his child's hunger with a stone or endanger him with a serpent when asked for essential food.
The "Serpents for Supper" concept captures the dreadful absurdity of imagining God doing exactly that. It describes the spiritual pitfall where believers, despite intellectually acknowledging God's goodness, approach Him with underlying fear, suspicion, or a resignation to disappointment. We might:
• Project human failings onto God: Because earthly relationships can be sources of pain, betrayal, or unmet needs, we subconsciously fear God might operate similarly.
• Misinterpret hardship: When difficulties arise after prayer, we might quickly conclude, "God must have sent this 'stone' or 'serpent' instead of the 'bread' or 'fish' I asked for." This attributes malice or indifference to God, contradicting His revealed nature.
• Engage in false piety: Sometimes, a believer might adopt a posture of "whatever You will, Lord," which sounds submissive but masks a fear of asking for specifics, lest they be disappointed or appear demanding. This "contrived neutrality" distrusts God's willingness to engage with our genuine, specific needs and desires when they align with His kingdom.

2. The Character of the Father: The Foundation of Trust
The critical point Jesus makes is the infinite goodness and reliability of our Heavenly Father. He isn't just like a good human parent; He is the perfect standard of fatherhood, infinitely surpassing even the best earthly examples. His very nature is love (1 John 4:8) and goodness (Psalm 34:8). Therefore, the idea that He would respond to a sincere request for a "good thing" (spiritual nourishment, guidance, grace, provision aligned with His will) with something harmful or useless (a "stone" or "serpent") is contrary to His fundamental character.

3. The Invitation to Ask, Seek, Knock: Childlike Confidence
Jesus doesn't just reveal the Father's nature; He issues an invitation: "Ask, seek, knock." This implies:
• Relationship: Prayer is a dialogue within a secure relationship, like a child approaching a loving parent.
• Confidence: We are encouraged to come boldly (Hebrews 4:16), not timidly or suspiciously.
• Specificity and Honesty: Children naturally ask for what they want or need specifically. While our requests must always be submitted to God's wisdom and ultimate will ("Your kingdom come, Your will be done"), Jesus doesn't condemn specific requests. Asking for "bread" or "fish" is specific. The original text rightly encourages honesty about our needs and desires (e.g., specific grace, details in a home, qualities in a spouse), provided our hearts are aligned with God's purposes ("affections set on things above," Colossians 3:1-2) and our requests have scriptural warrant (they align with God's revealed will and character). God desires relationship, not robotic, fearful subservience.

4. Discerning God's Answers: Beyond Superficial Appearances
This is where spiritual wisdom is crucial. Life involves trials, challenges, and unanswered prayers as we perceive them. How do we reconcile this with Matthew 7:11?
• God's "Good Things" are Truly Good: God promises "good things." These are things that are ultimately beneficial for our spiritual growth, relationship with Him, and His kingdom purposes. This might not always align with our immediate comfort or definition of "good."
• Distinguishing Trials from Divine Malice: God may allow trials (James 1:2-4) or discipline us out of love (Hebrews 12:5-11), but this is fundamentally different from answering a child's request for necessary food with a harmful snake. God works in and through difficult circumstances for our ultimate good (Romans 8:28), but He doesn't substitute evil for good in direct answer to a righteous request.
• The Need for Discernment: When we receive something unexpected or difficult after prayer, we shouldn't automatically assume "God sent this stone." Instead, we should:

Check our Request: Was it aligned with God's Word and character? Was our motive pure (James 4:3)?
Examine God's Character: Does this outcome reflect the loving Father revealed in Scripture? Or does it feel like a "serpent"?
Seek Wisdom: Pray for understanding (James 1:5). Consult Scripture. Seek counsel from mature believers.
Trust His Ultimate Goodness: Even when we don't understand the specifics, we hold fast to the truth that our Father is good and gives good gifts. The answer might be "no," "wait," or something different that is ultimately better, but it won't be the spiritual equivalent of a stone or a serpent.

Furthermore, we are not more spiritual by pretending we have no preferences. God created us with desires and individuality, and He invites us to commune with Him as sons, not slaves. Provided our hearts are set on His kingdom and our requests are aligned with His revealed will in Scripture, we can boldly and specifically ask. Let this be the pattern of our prayer: specific requests, scriptural validation, and childlike trust. And if ever the answer seems off, let us not walk away in silence and sorrow—let us go back to the Father, check again, and listen more closely.
The concept of "Serpents for Supper" serves as a stark warning against approaching God with suspicion born from fear or misinterpreting hardship as divine malice in response to prayer. Profound biblical teaching, centered on Matthew 7:7-11, calls us to a radically trusting faith. We approach a Father of perfect goodness, wisdom, and love, who delights in giving "good things" to His children. We are invited to ask with childlike confidence and specificity, aligning our desires with His kingdom.
If you're praying for grace, define the area and the depth. If it's a home, describe what you believe He is leading you to. If it's a spouse, articulate the godly qualities you hope to find. This is not carnality—it is covenant faith grounded in trust.
When answers come, measure them not by fear or superficial appearances but by the Word. Did I ask God for this? Does this reflect His nature? Would a good Father serve this to a trusting child? Let us reject the lie that negative realities are somehow ‘holy’ answers to hopeful requests. Our God is not in the business of mockery. If we, frail and fallen, know not to trick our children with a snake when they ask for food, how much more the One who is Light and in whom there is no darkness at all?
While we must discern His answers wisely, we can rest assured that when we ask for the bread of life and sustenance for our journey, our Heavenly Father will never mock our need by serving us stones or endanger our souls by offering serpents for supper. He gives life, nourishment, and grace, according to His perfect will and infinite love.

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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE - SELF-MOTIVATION

Reading from the book of 1 Samuel 30:1-6, it described the challenge that David faced and the right step he took. "And David was greatly distressed... but David encouraged himself in the Lord his God." (1 Samuel 30:6)
Understanding Self-Motivation in the Light of Scripture
Self-motivation is the inner drive that propels a person forward despite difficulties and obstacles. It is an essential component of emotional intelligence, enabling individuals to persevere in the face of adversity rather than succumbing to discouragement, self-pity, or blame-shifting.
King David is a prime biblical example of self-motivation. In 1 Samuel 30:1-6, David faced one of the most distressing moments of his life—his city, Ziklag, was burned, and his family, along with those of his men, was taken captive. His own people even spoke of stoning him. Yet, rather than sinking into despair, David "encouraged himself in the Lord his God." This act of self-motivation propelled him to seek God’s guidance and ultimately recover all that was lost.

The Importance of Self-Motivation
1. Prevents Despair and Giving Up: Life is filled with trials—sickness, financial struggles, academic failures, and opposition from others. Those who lack self-motivation often fall into depression or quit in the face of hardship. Proverbs 24:10 warns, "If thou faint in the day of adversity, thy strength is small." Self-motivation strengthens our resolve to keep going.
2. Promotes Faith and Trust in God: The ability to encourage oneself in the Lord fosters unwavering faith. Hebrews 10:23 says, "Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful that promised)." Those who stay motivated find hope even in dark situations because they trust in God’s unfailing promises.
3. Develops Courage in the Face of Challenges: The challenges of life can be intimidating, but self-motivation enables believers to rise above fear. Joshua 1:9 reminds us, "Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest." With self-motivation, one can face adversity head-on with confidence in God.

How to Develop Self-Motivation
1. Encourage Yourself in the Lord: Like David, learn to turn to God in distressing situations. Sing songs of praise, meditate on His Word, and remind yourself of past victories He has given you.
2. Stay Focused on God’s Promises: The Bible is filled with divine assurances. Memorize and declare them over your life. Isaiah 41:10 says, "Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness."
3. Maintain a Positive Confession: What you say about your situation matters. Proverbs 18:21 states, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." Speak life into your circumstances rather than negativity.
4. Surround Yourself with Godly Encouragement: Engage with people who uplift your spirit. Avoid company that drains your faith. Proverbs 27:17 says, "Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend."
The Power of Singing and Trusting in God: Paul and Silas, in Acts 16:25-26, were imprisoned, yet they sang praises to God. Their self-motivation, despite their suffering, led to divine intervention. Likewise, when your trials seem overwhelming, sing and trust in God. The battle you are facing will soon be over if you believe and remain motivated in the Lord.
A Call to Salvation: If you have not given your life to Christ, self-motivation alone will not sustain you. True strength comes from knowing Jesus as your Lord and Savior. Surrender your life to Him, and He will empower you to overcome every challenge.
Prayer: Lord, help me to stay motivated and encouraged in You, no matter the challenges I face. Strengthen my faith, and let my trust in You remain unshaken. Amen.

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EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE - SELF-AWARENESS

In 2 Corinthians 13:5-8 - Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves. Know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you, except ye be reprobates?
Understanding Self-Awareness Through Scripture:
Self-awareness is the foundational pillar of emotional intelligence. It is the ability to recognize and understand one’s own emotions, strengths, weaknesses, and spiritual condition. Without self-awareness, we are susceptible to emotional instability, poor decision-making, and strained relationships. The Bible, in 2 Corinthians 13:5, exhorts believers to examine themselves—a call to introspection and honest self-evaluation.The ability to self-reflect is critical in the Christian journey. The apostle Paul encourages believers to assess their faith, which implies looking inwardly to discern their spiritual state. This aligns with emotional intelligence, where understanding oneself is the first step toward emotional maturity and effective interaction with others.

The Role of Self-Awareness in Emotional Intelligence:
Daniel Goleman, a leading authority on emotional intelligence, states, "Your emotional abilities aren't in hand if you don't have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far." This statement echoes biblical wisdom, as Proverbs 4:23 admonishes, "Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life." The ability to govern our emotions starts with knowing ourselves—our triggers, tendencies, and weaknesses. The failure to do so can result in unhealthy emotions manifesting as depression, anxiety, anger, and poor interpersonal relationships.

Self-Awareness and the Christian Walk Self-awareness in a biblical sense requires: Honest Self-Evaluation: "Let us search and try our ways, and turn again to the Lord" (Lamentations 3:40). It is essential to identify sinful tendencies and areas that need God’s refining.
Spiritual Discernment: Recognizing one’s strengths and limitations helps in aligning one’s life with God’s will.
Submission to God’s Transformation: Romans 12:2 instructs believers to be transformed by the renewing of their minds. Self-awareness leads to repentance and growth in Christlikeness.

Practical Steps to Cultivate Self-Awareness
Daily Reflection and Prayer: Spend time in God’s presence, asking Him to reveal areas needing transformation.
Engage in Bible Study: The Word of God serves as a mirror, helping us to see ourselves clearly (James 1:23-25).
Seek Godly Counsel: Proverbs 27:17 states, "Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend."
Be Attuned to Your Emotions: Identifying emotional triggers helps in managing reactions and fostering inner peace.

Self-Awareness and Emotional Stability
The absence of self-awareness often leads to emotional instability, making it difficult to maintain peace with others. Unchecked emotions can result in outbursts, resentment, and broken relationships. However, when we allow the Holy Spirit to guide us, He produces in us the fruit of self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

The Ultimate Goal: Christlike Transformation
Sinners must pray for salvation to overcome destructive emotional behaviors, while believers should seek sanctification to experience God’s perfect peace. As we grow in self-awareness, we align our emotions with God’s truth, ensuring that our feelings do not dictate our actions but rather reflect a life surrendered to Christ.
Prayer: Lord, help me to conquer my emotions and submit them to Your will. Grant me self-awareness that I may walk in wisdom and reflect Your love to others. Amen.

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CHRIST'S RESURRECTION POWER:A TRANSFORMATIVE FORCE FOR LIFE AND REIGN

The resurrection of Jesus Christ stands as the cornerstone of the Christian faith, a divine demonstration of power that conquers death and offers transformative life to all who believe. Romans 8:11 and Philippians 3:10 reveal the profound reality of this power dwelling within us, granting both spiritual and physical renewal. As we explore "Christ's Resurrection Power," let us uncover the biblical truths and spiritual wisdom that unlock its potential.

The Indwelling Spirit: The Source of Resurrection Power

Romans 8:11 declares, "But if the Spirit of him that raised up Jesus from the dead dwell in you, he that raised up Christ from the dead shall also quicken your mortal bodies by his Spirit that dwelleth in you." This reveals that the same Spirit that resurrected Jesus resides within believers, empowering us to overcome the limitations of our mortal existence. This is not merely a theological concept but a living reality that impacts every aspect of our lives. Philippians 3:10 expresses a deep longing "to know him, and the power of his resurrection." This indicates that resurrection power is not just a past event but a present force that believers are called to experience.

The Transformative Power of Resurrection

Christ's resurrection power provides comprehensive transformation, addressing the deepest needs of humanity:

1. Rebirth into God's Kingdom (John 3:1-19)

The Holy Spirit, the agent of new birth, enables individuals to enter God's kingdom. We must pray for the Spirit to move powerfully, bringing genuine conversions and spiritual renewal. As John 3:19 states, light has come into the world, and the Spirit of God brings this light to the human heart.

2. Rejection of Worldliness (1 John 2:15-16, 4:4)

Worldliness seeks to ensnare us with the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.
We must pray for the Spirit to empower us to resist these temptations and dethrone worldly influences.
1 John 4:4 reminds us, "Ye are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you, than he that is in the world."

3. Revival of Dead Virtues (Ezekiel 37:1-10)

The resurrection power has the ability to revive what is dead, bringing life to dry bones.
We must pray for God's Spirit to bring healing and restoration to body, soul, and spirit.
Just as God breathed life into dry bones, He can breathe life into our dead virtues.

4. Rekindling Dying Fires (Isaiah 35:3)

Spiritual fervor can wane, leaving us feeling weak and ineffective.
We must pray for the Spirit to rekindle the fire of youthful spiritual vigor.
Isaiah 35:3 exhorts us: "Strengthen ye the weak hands, and confirm the feeble knees."

5. Recharging for Our Calling (John 15:4, Philippians 3:10)

We need to connect with the Lord's power to recharge our spiritual lives and fulfill our calling.
We must pray for every believer to connect with Jesus, the river of life, and experience His resurrection power.
John 15:4 reminds us, "Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me."

6. Reaching Our Communities (Ezekiel 47:1-10)

The resurrection power flows like living water, bringing life to our communities.
We must pray for the Spirit to empower us to witness for Jesus, bringing resurrection power to those around us.
Ezekiel 47:9 states, "And it shall come to pass, that every thing that liveth, which moveth, whithersoever the rivers shall come, shall live."

7. Reigning with Christ (Ephesians 2:6)

The resurrection power elevates us to a position of authority, enabling us to reign with Christ.
We must pray for the Spirit to activate this power in our lives, lifting us above every principality and power.
Ephesians 2:6 affirms that God "hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus."

The Power of Prayer (Jeremiah 29:12-14)

Jeremiah 29:12-14 declares, "Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart. And I will be found of you, saith the Lord." This emphasizes the necessity of earnest prayer in experiencing God's presence and power. Therefore, Christ's resurrection power is not a distant historical event but a living, active force that transforms our lives and empowers us to fulfill our calling. By embracing the indwelling Spirit, seeking God through prayer, and surrendering to His transformative power, we can experience the fullness of Christ's resurrection in our daily lives.

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